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Staying for the children??? Oh Okay.
I’m staying for the kids!!! Saying that you’re staying for the children is a delusional way of thinking. As a matter of fact, if the...

Lavonya Reel
Jul 13, 20241 min read


Sometimes you just gotta go….
Have you ever wondered what would’ve happened had you stayed? Would things have worked out? How would your mental status be? Would you be...

Lavonya Reel
Jul 10, 20241 min read


I was reminded...
And the Lord said unto Samuel, How long wilt thou mourn for Saul, seeing I have rejected him from reigning over Israel? fill thine horn...

Lavonya Reel
Mar 23, 20241 min read


It wasn’t MY plan
It was my plan to be a backslider and whoremonger when I became an adult. Stop looking like that. Tryna tell y’all the truth in here....

Lavonya Reel
May 31, 20232 min read


THEN AND NOW
Then & Now This year, I turned 39. When I was a kid, my family would ask me, “Do you feel like you’re 10?” or “Do you feel like you’re...

Lavonya Reel
May 20, 20222 min read


Feelings…
Ladies hi y’all feel??? Fellas y’all alright??? These are words belted out by one of my favorite artist, Ms. Erykah Badu, right before...

Lavonya Reel
May 11, 20222 min read


Wait...Relax.
You’re divorced now. Things aren’t looking the way you envisioned they would be for you when you were contemplating the divorce? Or maybe...

Lavonya Reel
Jan 17, 20221 min read


Purity after Divorce…is that possible???
One of the things that no one really thinks about when thinking of divorce is the fact that your sex life is about to change. For some,...

Lavonya Reel
Dec 17, 20212 min read


Love Levels...
“A toxic person will thank you for dealing with their crap but bash you for walking away for better.” ~Vonya I knew it was toxic but I...

Lavonya Reel
Sep 26, 20201 min read


Am I okay?
I’m sitting here trying to talk myself into doing my facial skin care regimen... I don’t even feel like it. It’s gonna have to be plain...

Lavonya Reel
Sep 7, 20201 min read


"Confront your fear of love." -God
I’m afraid of love. It, for some reason, feels as though I’m giving my inner best to someone. They can do either one of two things: build...

Lavonya Reel
Sep 7, 20201 min read
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